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Wisdom
1:12-14 "Seek not death in the error of your life, neither procure ye
destruction by the works of your hands. For God made not death, neither hath
he pleasure in the destruction of the living. For he created all things that
they might be.."
"Of all human evils death is the most grievous, by which human life is
destroyed...". -- St. Thomas Aquinas, Compendium theologiae, lib. 1 cap. 227
John 11:17-35 "Then when Jesus came, he found that he [Lazarus] had lain in
the grave four days already...Then when Mary was come where Jesus was, and
saw him, she fell down at his feet, saying unto him, Lord, if thou hadst
been here, my brother had not died. When Jesus therefore saw her weeping,
and the Jews also weeping which came with her, he groaned in the spirit, and
was troubled. And said, Where have ye laid him? They said unto him, Lord,
come and see. Jesus wept."
First a
definition: death is the separation of the soul from the body, a phenomenon
we can't know has happened with moral certainty until corruption has
begun. "Death" does not mean the cessation of breathing or heartbeat, nor
does "brain death" mean that death has occurred. The soul isn't "in" the
heart, or "in" the lungs, or "in the brain, or "in" any particular part of
the body. The treatment of the dying, the apparently dead, and their organs
is governed by this Truth.
Now, a person confronting death should receive the Sacrament of
Extreme Unction (be informed that this Sacrament is no longer
offered in the Novus Ordo and has been replaced by the Anointing of the
Sick, which is nothing more than several communal prayers and is not a
sacrament- The post- Vatican II Church has given up their Catholic identity
and has fallen into the spirit of the world and the devil, which we were
warned for centuries by various popes, saints and theologians, not to
forget fully approved apparitions of Our Lady of Good Success, Fatima, and
La Salette. Certainly no person on earth has the right to remove a sacrament
given by Christ Himself, as the the New Church has done) for
the possible restoration of body (His will be done) and, most importantly,
soul. This is of prime importance and should never be neglected.
Other ways to help prepare the sick person for death are to pray the Holy
Rosary (focusing on the Sorrowful Mysteries), to
St. Joseph (the Patron of the dying) for a holy death, etc. -- with the sick
person, if possible, or in such a manner that he can hear you. This includes
audible prayer for the unconscious; never think that those who are
unconscious or in a coma can't hear you!
The sick person should have a Crucifix (a St. Benedict Medal Crucifix, if
possible) in view, perhaps to hold if he can, and should be encouraged to
offer up his sufferings and to trust in the love and mercy of our Lord Jesus
Christ. A lit blessed candle, as a symbol of the sick person's Baptism -- a
symbol of sanctifying grace and the promise of eternal life -- should be
placed nearby so he can see the flame (unless oxygen tanks are in use, of
course!).
The Brown Scapular should be on the
dying person, over their head, with each end on both sides of their chest.
If oxygen tanks are on, cut the string and then tie them up after placing
around ill person. Be sure to have the person invested into the Brown
Scapular with the traditional rite by a valid tradition Catholic priest.
Invoke the the Holy names of "Jesus., Mary & Joseph" in their ear so the
last words they hear on this earth are those of their Savior, while invoking
the intercession of Blessed Mother and St. Joseph.
You'll note that the Catholic way of death is different from that of other
"Christian" groups. We don't try to sanitize it and avoid the topic. We
don't speak in euphemisms about it. We don't take salvation for granted,
except the salvation of the souls of baptized children who've died before
the age of reason (but we, of course, trust in the mercy of God for all
others). And we don't consider it a sin or, at the least, a faux-pas to
mourn. While we don't exactly "sit shiva," we don't see jumping up and down
and singing happy songs as the natural reaction to having to miss someone
until one's own death. In other words, it's OK to rend garments and weep;
these things are not expressions of a "lack of faith," but are normal,
natural reactions to the evil of death, and to missing someone and realizing
that it will be some time before you see him again, Deo volente.
It must be remembered that sickness and death are great, great evils; they
were not "supposed" to be a part of this world, and came about as a
consequence of the sin of Adam. Christ, of course, conquered the tomb and
gives us the hope of eternal life. Catholics, then, look at death for what
it is -- an evil -- but cling to the hope He offers, trusting in His Divine
Mercy while also realizing that He is Just. Christ Himself wept before the
dead Lazarus.
Now, the sick person shouldn't be denied the Truth of his situation any more
than those around him should lie to themselves. It is not a loving
act to ignore reality out of fear of not wanting to alarm the sick one, and
to do so is to imperil his everlasting soul. The dying person needs to face
his mortality, to repent, to pray, to receive Unction, to be encouraged to
trust totally in Jesus and His forgiveness and love, etc. He must
spiritually prepare himself for judgment, and to help him do this is the
single greatest act of love you can offer.
Ways of Comforting the Dying and Encouraging Him to
Focus on Christ and His Passion
Throughout the dying person's time in his sick bed, it is good to offer to
him short acclamations that encourage the focus on Christ and the prayers of
the Saints. Below are the ones listed in the 1958 St. Andrew Daily Missal.
Periodically whisper these prayers into the dying person's ears:
Into Thy hands,
Lord, I commend my spirit.
O Lord Jesus Christ, receive my spirit.
Holy Mary, pray for me.
Holy Mary, Mother of grace, Mother of mercy, do thou defend me from the
enemy, and receive me at the hour of death.
It is
recommended, too, to read the 18th and 19th chapters of the Gospel according
to St. John to the dying, helping him to focus on Christ.
Commending the Soul to God
As death
approaches more closely, the sick person's soul should be commended to God.
The following traditional form is most beautiful:
Go forth, O Christian soul, out of this world, in the Name of God the Father
almighty, Who created you; in the Name of Jesus Christ, the Son of the
living God, Who suffered for you; in the Name of the Holy Ghost, Who
sanctified you, in the name of the holy and glorious Mary, Virgin and Mother
of God; in the name of the angels, archangels, thrones and dominions,
cherubim and seraphim; in the name of the patriarchs and prophets, of the
holy apostles and evangelists, of the holy martyrs, confessors, monks and
hermits, of the holy virgins, and of all the saints of God; may your place
be this day in peace, and your abode in Holy Sion. Through Christ our Lord.
Amen.
O merciful and gracious God, O God, according to the multitude of Thy
mercies Thou blotteth out the sins of such as repent, and graciously remit
the guilt of their past offenses, mercifully regard this Thy servant
(handmaid) N.____ and grant him (her) a full discharge from all his (her)
sins, who with a contrite heart most earnestly begs it of Thee. Renew, O
merciful Father, whatever has been vitiated in him (her) by human frailty,
or by the frauds and deceits of the enemy: and associate him (her) as a
member of redemption to the unity of the body of the Church. Have
compassion, Lord, on his (her) sighs, have compassion on his (her) tears;
and admit him (her), who has no hope but in Thy mercy, to the sacrament of
Thy reconciliation. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
I commend you, dear Brother (Sister), to the almighty God, and consign you
to the care of Him, whose creature you are, that, when you shall have paid
the debt of all mankind by death, you may return to thy Maker, Who formed
you from the dust of the earth. When, therefore, your soul shall depart from
your body, may the resplendent multitude of the angels meet you: may the
court of the apostles receive you: may the triumphant army of glorious
martyrs come out to welcome you: may the splendid company of confessors clad
in their white robes encompass you: may the choir of joyful virgins reeceive
you: and may you meet with a blessed repose in the bosom of the patriarchs.
May St. Joseph, the most sweet Patron of the dying, comfort you with a great
hope. May Mary, the holy Mother of God, lovingly cast upon you her eyes of
mercy. May Jesus Christ appear to you with a mild and joyful countenance,
and appoint you a place among those who are to stand before Him for ever.
May you be a stranger to all that is punished with darkness, chastised with
flames, and condemned to torments. May the most wicked enemy, with all his
evil spirits, be forced to give way: may he tremble at your approach in the
company of angels, and with confusion fly away into the vast chaos of
eternal night. Let God arise and His enemies be dispersed,, and let them
that hate Him fly before His Face, let them vanish like smoke; and as wax
that melts before the fire, so let sinners perish in the sight of God; but
may the just rejoice and be happy in His presence. May then all the legions
of Hell be confounded and put to shame; and may none of the ministers of
Satan dare to stop you in your way. May Christ deliver you from torments,
Who was crucified for you.. May He deliver you from eternal death, Who
vouchsafed to die for you. May Jesus Christ the Son of the living God place
you in the ever-verdant lawns of His Paradise; and may He, the true
Shepherd, acknowledge you for one of His flock. May He absolve you from all
your sins, and place you at His right hand in the midst of His elect. May
you see your Redeemer face to face, and standing always in His presence,
behold with happy eyes the most clear Truth. And may you be placed among the
company of the blessed and enjoy the sweetness of the contemplation of your
God for ever. Amen.
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Receive,
Lord, Thy servant (handmaid) into the place of salvation, which he (she)
hopes to obtain through Thy mercy. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) from all danger of Hell; and
from all pain and tribulation. |
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Amen |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) as Thou didst deliver Enoch and
Elias from the common death of the world. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Abraham
from the midst of the Chaldeans. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Job from
all his afflictions. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Isaac
from being sacrificed by his father. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Lot from
being destroyed in the flames of Sodom. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Moses
from the hands of the Pharaoh, King of Egypt. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant, as Thou didst deliver the three children
from the fiery furnace, and from the hands of an unmerciful king. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Susanna
from her false accusers. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver David
from the hands of Saul and Goliath. |
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Amen. |
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Deliver,
Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Peter
and Paul out of prison. |
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Amen. |
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And as
Thou didst deliver that blessed virgin and martyr, Saint Thecla, from
three most cruel torments, so be pleased to deliver the soul of this Thy
servant, and bring it to the participation of Thy Heavenly joys. |
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We commend to Thee, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) N.____, and we
pray Thee, Lord Jesus Christ, the Savior of the world, that as in mercy to
him (her) Thou becamest man, so now Thou would be pleased to admit him (her)
to the bosom of Thy patriarchs. Remember, Lord, he (she) is Thy creature,
not made by strange gods, but by Thee, the only living and true God; for
there is no other but Thee, and none can equal Thy work. Let his (her) soul
rejoice in Thy presence, and remember not his (her) former iniquities and
excesses, which he (she) has fallen into, through the violence of passion
and the corruption of his (her) nature. For although he (she) has sinned,
yet he (she) has always firmly believed in the Father, Son and Holy Ghost;
he (she) has had a zeal for Thy honor, and faithfully adored Thee as his
(her) God, and Creator of all things. Remember not, Lord, we pray Thee, the
sins of his (her) youth, and his (her) ignorance's; but according to Thy
great mercy, be mindful of him (her) in Thy Heavenly glory. Let the heavens
be opened to him (her), and the angels rejoice with him (her). Let the
archangel St. Michael, whom Thou didst appoint the chief of the heavenly
host, conduct him (her). Let the holy angels come out to meet him (her), and
carry him (her) to the city of heavenly Jerusalem. Let blessed Peter the
apostle, to whom God gave the Keys of the Kingdom of Heaven, receive him
(her). Let St. Paul the apostle, who was a vessel of election, assist him
(her). Let St. John the beloved disciple, to whom the secrets of Heaven were
revealed, intercede for him (her). Let all the holy apostles, who received
from Jesus Christ the power of binding and loosing, pray for him (her). Let
all the saints and elect of God, who in this world have suffered torments in
the name of Christ, intercede for him (her); that being freed from the
prison of his (her) body, he (she) may be admitted into the glory of our
Lord Jesus Christ, Who with Thee and the Holy Ghost, lives and reigns, world
without end. Amen.
Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary
May Mary the most merciful Virgin Mother of God, kindest comforter of them
that mourn, commend to her Son the soul od this His servant (handmaid), that
through her maternal intercession, he (she) may overcome the dread of death
and, with her as guide, joyfully reach his (her) longed-for home in the
heavenly fatherland.
R. Amen.
Prayer to St. Joseph
To thee I
have recourse, St. Joseph, Patron of the dying; and to thee, at whose
blessed death watchfully assisted Jesus and Mary, by both these dearest
pledges I earnestly recommend the soul of this servant (handmaid) in the
sufferings of his (her) last agony, that he (she) may by your protection be
delivered from the snares of the devil and from eternal death, and may merit
to attain everlasting joy. Through the same Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
Prayers Just after Death
After the
soul has left the body, the following responses is said:
R. Subveníte,
Sancti Dei, occúrrite, Angeli Dómini, Suscipiéntes ániman ejus,
Offeréntes eam in conspéctu Altíssimi. Suscípiat te Christus, qui
vocávit te, et in sinum Abrahae Angeli dedúcant te. Suscipiéntes ánimam
ejus, Offeréntes eam in conspéctu Altíssimi. |
R. Come to
his assistance, all you Saints of God: meet him, al you Angels of God:
receiving his soul, offering it in the sight of the Most High. May
Christ receive you, who hath called you, and may the Angels conduct you
to Abraham's bosom. Receiving his (her) soul and offering it in the
sight of the Most High. |
V. Réquiem
aetérnam dona ei, Dómine, et lux perpétua lúceat ei. Offeréntes eam in
conspéctu Altìssimi. |
V. Eternal
rest give to him (her), Lord: and let perpetual light shine upon him
(her). Offering it in the sight of the Most High. |
Kýrie
eléison.
Christe eléison.
Kýrie eléison.
[Pater noster (silently)]... |
Lord,
have mercy.
Christ, have mercy.
Lord, have mercy.
[Our Father (silently)]..... |
V. Et ne
nos indúcas in tentatiónem. |
V.
...and lead us not into temptation. |
R. Sed
libera nos a malo. |
R. But
deliver us from evil. |
V.
Réquiem aetérnam dona ei, Dómine. |
V.
Eternal rest give to him (her), Lord. |
R. Et
lux perpétua lúceat ei. |
R. And
let perpetual light shine upon him (her). |
V. A
porta ìnferi. |
V. From
the gates of Hell. |
R. Erue,
Dómine, ánimam ejus. |
R.
Deliver his (her) soul, Lord. |
V.
Réquiescat in pace. |
V. May
he (she) rest in peace. |
R. Amen. |
R. Amen. |
V.
Dómine, exáudi oratiónem meam. |
V. O
Lord, hear my prayer. |
R. Et
clamor meus ad te véniat. |
R. And
let my cry come to Thee. |
V.
Dóminus vobiscum. |
V. The
Lord be with you. |
R. Et
cum spiritu tuo. |
R. And
with thy spirit. |
Orémus. Tibi
Dómine, commendámus ánimam fámuli tui (fámulae tuae) N.____, ut
defúnctus (defúncta) saéculo tibi vivat: et quae per fragilitátem
humánae conversatiónis peccáta commìsit, tu vénia misericordìssime
pietátis abstérge. Per Christum Dóminum nostrum. |
Let us pray.
To Thee, Lord, we commend the soul of your servant (handmaid) N.____,
that being dead to this world he (she) may live to Thee: and whatever
sins he (she)( has committed in this life through human frailty, do Thou
in Thy most merciful goodness forgive. Through Christ our Lord.
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R. Amen. |
R. Amen. |
Grant, O
God, that while we lament the departure of this Thy servant (handmaid),
we may always remember that we are most certainly to follow him (her).
And give us grace to prepare for that last hour by a good life, that we
may not be surprised by a sudden and unprovided death, but be ever
watching, that, when Thou callest, we may, with the Bridegroom, enter
into eternal glory: through Christ our Lord. Amen.
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